Be the Right Person

This stage involves becoming a matching candidate making internal and external preparations before looking for a match.

Completion Requirements:

1) Education (Divine Principle and Level 2)

2) Health Exam and Blessing Interview

Find the Right Person

After you’ve become a matching candidate, use healthy and intentional methods to search for a potential spouse.

Completion Requirements:

1) Matching Plan and communication

2) Matching Report and Intentional Year

Prepare as a Couple

This stage involves creating a healthy relationship in preparation for the Marriage Blessing.

Completion Requirements:

1) Education (Level 3 attended together)

2) Blessing donation and registration

What is the Blessing Interview & Why is it Important?

The Blessing Interview is one of the required steps to becoming a matching candidate in the United States. Given that it is about reflecting on past mistakes and then reporting them to a Blessing Interviewer, the Blessing Interview can be rather intimidating. Should it be?

Preparing for a Relationship: Letting Go of Looking Good

Looking good is a powerful feeling. However, the desire to look good all the time can actually be a major limiting factor in the way we relate with others. To have the most fulfilling relationships with others, we need to learn to let go of the desire to look good.

Inclusion in the Matching Process

Watch this online discussion where we listened and learned about how to have a healthy approach to race and culture in the matching process.

Hear testimonies from inter-cultural Blessed Couples, breakout groups, Q&A panel.

Vision

Every successful Blessing starts with a clear vision and purpose. Paint a picture of what your marriage and family will look like, and we’ll help you take the steps to get there.

Growth

Life is all about growth. Your spiritual and emotional growth is paramount in becoming the husband or wife that you want to become.

Contribution

Having a heart to give–rather than take–is essential in creating a healthy Matching process and Blessed marriage.

More Matching Resources

Find resources to help assist you throughout the matching process.

MatchNet - Educational & Connective Platform

MatchNet is a step-by-step guide for your family.

For singles to become an extraordinarily marriageable person and find a partner that shares your vision and values for the Blessing.

For parents to build a beautiful partnership with your child on their journey to the Blessing.

Matching Websites

Many couples have found each other through one of the Matching websites that our faith community has developed. Below is an outline of each of the websites and how to get started!

BCMatching.org (Blessing4U)

Online Matching System

Matchbook for Blessed Children

Matching Support Webinars

Watch recordings of all the past Matching Support Webinars.

Matching Supporters & Blessing Interviewers

Matching Supporters are trained to support candidates and their families with tools and resources to navigate the Matching Process. They thoroughly understand the guidelines and procedures for the Matching Process.

Note: You will need to have an account in the BFM Education portal in order to see the list of Matching Supporters and Blessing Interviewers.

Forms & Documents

Here are BFM forms and documents.

5 Benefits of Reading the Matching Handbook

Over the years, the BFM has supported and educated families through the matching process, which is a tested and true method of helping people find a potential spouse, start healthy communication habits, build a relationship based on commitment and faith, and receive the Marriage Blessing.