FamilyFed Pastor Resources
Pastors play an integral role in the Matching Process, the Blessing Ceremony, and in care for Blessed Families. Here’s a list of key documents and resources to support you as pastors.
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MatchNet Program
The most important resource that singles and parents can use to prepare for the Matching & Blessing is the MatchNet program. Learn more about the program here.
Blessing Preparation
Blessing Interviewer Pastor Approval Form
Intentional Year Commitment Form (signed by matched couples)
Trainings
Blessing Interviewer Online Training
Matching Supporter Online Training
Blessing Officiator Training Course
Blessing Documents
Holy Handkerchiefs Request Form (should be sent as soon as a couple receives the Blessing)
3-Day Ceremony Pastors Instructions
3-Day Ceremony Instruction Manual
3-Day Ceremony Pastors Instructions in Spanish
3-Day Ceremony Instruction Manual in Spanish
Your First Time for couples where both are Blessed Children, and accompanying guidance for their parents
Couple/Family Care
Creating a Community for Growing Families (video)
Online Sunday School (video)
Community Care
Taking Care of Yourself as a Leader (video)
The Traditions Book CIG Edition
Seonghwa Guide - Part 1 and Part 2
Seonghwa Ceremonies, traditions and practical guidance (video)
Crisis Support
Intentional Year Plan Booklet (guided meetings and activities for pastors to support couples in crisis before they seek a Blessing dissolution)
How to use the Intentional Year Plan (training video)
Facilitating Breakthrough for Couples in Marital Crisis (video)
Request for Dissolution of the Blessing (instructions for couples)
Pastors Instructions for Processing Blessing Dissolution
Responding to Crisis in a Local Community (video)
When and How to Refer to Mental Health Professionals (video)