About Blessing Dissolution (Part 2)
This article is part of a three-part series about Blessing Success & Avoiding Blessing Dissolution:
Contributed by Christian Nseka, BFM Assistant Director
This article is not an indictment of those who have experienced the dissolution of their Blessing. Most of us have been there. We either have dissolved our Blessing or have thought about dissolving our Blessing at some point. I hope everybody reading this article will receive insight and inspiration rather than feel judgment.
For those who are not familiar with the Blessing Providence, a Blessing Dissolution is the end of a husband and a wife relationship after they have received the Blessing. In plain terms, it is a divorce between a Blessed Husband and a Blessed Wife.
The reason why the Blessing should not be broken is because it is a relationship that is supposed to represent the harmony between the masculine and feminine aspects of God. As such, it is supposed to reflect the absolute and eternal nature of God. This explains why the Blessing is eternal. It is a conjugal bond that is established between a man as a husband, a woman as a wife, and God as the Absolute Love Subject Partner.
The truth is that in the Blessing, the couple created by husband and wife becomes God's love object partner.
The Blessing allows us to alleviate God's pain. Breaking the Blessing actually produces the adverse effect. It actually adds to God's pain. It breaks God's heart.
Of course, there are situations in which maintaining the Blessing could probably do more harm than good. However, the truth is that breaking the Blessing is separating God from His love object partner. It is similar to putting God in a situation where He would relive the pain of losing Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.
A Blessed relationship is not just a relationship between a man and a woman. It is also, more so than we can imagine, a relationship that brings the characteristics of God that have been divided in a man and a woman back into one ⎯ the Union. Think about the Action of Origin, Division, and Union in the Divine Principle. Of course, the principle dictates that in order for multiplication to happen, the Union needs to divide in order to create a new union with another entity down the road, thus repeating the cycle. However, a Blessing Dissolution is not such a division. A Blessing Dissolution destroys the union. It ends the life cycle. It breaks the momentum of multiplication.
A Blessing Dissolution does not benefit God when it happens. It only creates a new painful experience for God. It breaks God's heart. Physically, dissolving the Blessing is a man and a woman stopping to be husband and wife. But more than that, it is God losing the physical foundation through which He could continue to substantiate His existence in the physical realm. Spiritually, it is a man and a woman stopping to represent God in the spiritual realm. Also more than that, it is God losing the spiritual representation through which to substantiate His omnipresence in the spiritual realm. Once again, this is why the Blessing is eternal. The union of a Blessed Husband and a Blessed Wife creates the physical foundation upon which God can express His love in the physical realm and when a Blessed Couple enters the spiritual world, that couple becomes the manifestation of God’s masculinity and femininity. How awesome is that!
To say the least, a Blessing Dissolution is a major setback for God. With each Blessing Dissolution, God loses His unique love partner⎯your couple. You can create another union through the Blessing, but that union will not be the same as your previous one. Neither will it provide the exact same love experience that your previous one (could have) provided. Since each individual is unique, each union of two individuals is also unique. Every Blessing that is dissolved takes with it a piece of God's joy and True Parents' pride.
Let's keep making God happy and True Parents proud.
This article is part of a three-part series about Blessing Success & Avoiding Blessing Dissolution:
