How to Deal With Fear & Uncertainty in the Matching Process [Podcast Ep. 16]
Written By Blessing & Family Ministry
Anything worthwhile in life comes with a little bit of uncertainty and risk. The Matching & Blessing is no different. Benjy shares some insightful advice to anyone that feels uncertain or paralyzed in the Matching Process.
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