The Power of Internal Growth Before Matching [Ep. 102]
Written By Blessing & Family Ministry
There is infinite wisdom and guidance in the words of our True Parents. Join Benjy and he dives deeply into how these words can inspire and lead you in your matching journey.
Watch more videos about the Matching 👇
7 Steps to a Successful Matching ▶ https://youtu.be/xVKa1DbzVGg
Step 1: God & Spirituality ▶ https://youtu.be/uoF46sgeRYw
Step 2: Understanding the Blessing ▶ https://youtu.be/D5jKj23DxOE
Step 3: Sexual Integrity ▶ https://youtu.be/2ZmapGYbRqA
Step 4: Your Matching Team ▶ https://youtu.be/iRt54eo-T8E
Step 5: The Matching Process ▶ https://youtu.be/ABR62KQusYg
Step 6: Finding the Right Person ▶ https://youtu.be/hKcVB_-yGug
Step 7: Create a Successful Blessing ▶ https://youtu.be/-4rruKWWQUA
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