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Creating Your Matching Plan
Get started with discussing the Matching Process within your family and team.
Couples & Core Beliefs
Core beliefs are our deeply held beliefs about life, about what’s right and wrong, and what is important to us. Unconsciously or consciously, they guide our behavior and our decision-making.
How to Discuss the Matching Process with Young Children and Youth
Parenting Educator Myrna Lapres presents on How to Discuss the Matching Process with Young Children and Youth.
You, Me, and Us
Like a mother’s love for her child, unconditional love is a love that doesn’t have to be earned. It is a love that serves without expecting anything in return.
Know Yourself: Using Personality Tests to Prepare for a Relationship
Some common relationship advice is to be authentic, to be “yourself.” However, “who am I?” is usually not a question we deliberately seek answers to. In fact, our personality or character traits may not even be readily apparent to ourselves.
Preparing for a Relationship: Letting Go of Looking Good
Looking good is a powerful feeling. However, the desire to look good all the time can actually be a major limiting factor in the way we relate with others. To have the most fulfilling relationships with others, we need to learn to let go of the desire to look good.
What is the Blessing Interview & Why is it Important?
The Blessing Interview is one of the required steps to becoming a matching candidate in the United States. Given that it is about reflecting on past mistakes and then reporting them to a Blessing Interviewer, the Blessing Interview can be rather intimidating. Should it be?
5 Benefits of Reading the Matching Handbook
Over the years, the BFM has supported and educated families through the matching process, which is a tested and true method of helping people find a potential spouse, start healthy communication habits, build a relationship based on commitment and faith, and receive the Marriage Blessing.