Contributed by Nancy Bulow
Safe Conversations is a relational technology that transformed my life. It is a 3-step dialogue process that integrates the brain and deepens connection, thus “satisfying the deepest yearning of the human heart—to love and be loved.” The safety that is created through the intentional dialogue invites openness and warmth into the sacred space between you and your loved one and can be used in any relationship.
Safety allows for vulnerability which leads to the discovery of unconscious challenges from childhood that influence your adult relationships. Anxiety that is created by a ruptured connection is relieved through learning to talk without criticism and listen with curiosity. You are thus able to give and receive love with calm and ease. Zero Negativity generates a Space-Between free from put-downs and other emotional toxins, replacing them with affirmations and appreciations.
Safe Conversations incorporates brain science in its relational technology. It is helpful to understand that the brain stem’s prime directive is survival and is always on alert to sense danger. We create elaborate defense mechanisms to protect ourselves from rejection since, as social beings, we cannot survive alone. Safe Conversations teaches how to activate and integrate the higher parts of our brain, which initiate collaboration and co-creation. Since we are hard-wired for emotional intimacy, a safe environment is an absolute necessity in order to fully connect with another person.
With safety, the defense mechanisms are de-activated, and our original nature arises from deep within. We experience full aliveness and joy, some people for the first time since childhood. We sense the wonder of life and a peace in our knowing that we are an integral part of the great design of the universe. We belong to one another. We substantiate the unconditional love of God and fulfill the purpose of creation.
Blessings to you and your family,
We are inviting you to experience it with us. The webinar series begins on October 2, 2019 and will be presented by Anne Contee and Nancy Bulow. For information and to register:
These videos give an introduction to the magic that can happen when you practice Safe Conversations:
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