Matching Resources for Candidates

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Is your family interested in learning about the matching process and networking with other Unificationist families? Join our Family Matching Support Webinar Series to get informed!

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Matching Plan WorksheetsMatching Plan Worksheets

The most important thing you can do to prepare for the matching process is to make a matching plan together with your parents/sors. The matching plan worksheet can help facilitate this process. It will help you decide who will be a part of your matching team and the role of each person on your team, identify your preferences and priorities, decide your approach to networking and methods of outreach to search for possible matches, and develop a set of important questions to ask a potential candidate.

Download Adult Unificationist Matching Plan Worksheet

Download Family Matching Plan Worksheet

Matching Websites

Smith & SonsThe Online Matching System (OMS) is a tool to facilitate the matching and Marriage Blessing process of first-generation Unificationists, Blessed Children, and Treasures of Heaven candidates. The website works in conjunction with the BFM, and cooperates with Blessed Family Departments worldwide.

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Matchbook for Blessed ChildrenMatchbook for Blessed Children

Matchbook is a matching network designed by the Blessed Family Association to help Blessed families share information for the matching of their children. Information is only shared with the people you wish, so you can feel comfortable to enter the information for all eligible family members.

Visit Matchbook

International Website for Blessed ChildrenInternational Website for Blessed Children

The International Matching Website for Blessed Children assists BC candidates and their parents in finding an international match. The website is a cooperative effort of BFDs worldwide.


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The Blessed Marriage Project has developed a support and resource website for Unificationists dealing with pornography habits. Visit to learn more and get support.

Porn Recovery Plan >

Guidelines on Physical Closeness >

Matching SupportersMatching Supporters

Matching Supporters are volunteers that feel called to support candidates and their families in the matching process. They thoroughly understand the international guidelines and procedures for the matching process, know the matching and Blessing application process, and have been trained and certified by the National Blessing & Family Ministry, and participate in advanced training at least two times per year. They serve as guides through the matching process.

Matching Supporters

MatchRes_FlagPagesFlag Pages

The Flag Page, developed by Mark Gungor, is your chance to see how you succeed in life, what motivates you most and how you’re different from the people close to you. It’s simple to do (5 minutes), easy to understand and best of all, gives you a vision for your future… where you will succeed and why. In a world that seems to always be looking for what’s wrong with you, isn’t it time you find out WHAT’S RIGHT ABOUT YOU?

Visit The Flag Page

MatchRes_MeyersBriggsMyers Briggs Personality Assessment

The Myers-Briggs Personality Assessment is the best-known and most trusted personality assessment tool available today. It is a self-reported instrument that measures personality preferences (not skills or abilities) and it is widely used throughout the world because of its high reliability and validity. The Myers-Briggs assessment has its roots in Carl Jung’s theory of psychological type. Katharine Briggs and her daughter, Isabel Briggs Myers, developed Jung’s theory and the first forms of the instrument, sharing a vision to enable individuals to grow through an understanding and appreciation of individual differences in healthy personality and to enhance harmony and productivity among diverse groups.

Visit Myers Briggs Personality Assessment

MatchRes_ReadyREADY Questionnaire

The READY questionnaire was developed to assist individuals who are not currently in a committed relationship to identify potential trouble spots that may arise in future relationships. The READY Report can help you determine whether you are ready to be in a committed relationship and what areas you can personally work on to increase your chances for success in future relationships.

Visit READY Questionnaire

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